PARADOXIART
FAN-ARTIST Call me Para '91 so, I'm an adult, white, GMT+2, Queer neuro-divergent. she/her/idc, KPOP stan since 2008.
before you follow & dni
Please note that I am an adult, I will not DM with minors and limit my interaction with them for both our safety. :)
01 I do not follow back when I don't see your age on your profile! I only follow people that are 18+.
02 I unfollow when you are making me uncomfortable or when your morals are different from mine.
03 Tell me if I accidentally misgendered or hurt you, I don't intend to do this.
04 I have a fulltime job! So some days I might not be online or respond later to things!
05 I am blunt and honest! I WILL tell you when I think you effed up. But it is NEVER my intention to hurt or bully you.
06 Do not interact if you're homophobic, transphobic or racist.
06 While joking about dark matter is something I do too, I don't do well with jokes about selfharm or suicide. I will unfollow you if it makes me uncomfortable.
07 Do not interact with me if you make fun of someone else's trauma or do not take their trauma seriously/weaponize it.
08 We all make mistakes, but I do not follow people unable to recognize or apologize for their past mistakes.
09 Don't involve me in your online drama, don't add me to it. I do not have time for it.
10 Don't interact if you use your interactions with idols as your main personality trait or as a 'popularity currency' I don't care you think you're special because you were able to buy 800 albums and met your oppa 25 times. Seriously, stay away from me.
11 Do not interact with me if you're too deep into your para-social relationship
with an idol. You're not cute for calling yourself someone's girlfriend or wife. It's disturbing when you tell others to not talk about idol X because she is 'yours'. We are all delusional sometimes but we don't need to put every thought we have on the timeline.
12 Do not use your mental health as an excuse for continued and repeated bad behaviour.
13 lastly, don't interact if you're needlessly cruel to idols, don't respect them as human beings or engage in 'fanwars' or the like.
I stan every member of my ult groups, the ones listed above are the members I am most likely to collect photocards or feel the most connection to personally. For me the ult groups are the ones that get me through the hardest times & every member is important. SHINee will always be five to me and I am not afraid to talk about Jonghyun and the art, love and passion he shared with the world. I will reblog his photos a lot! - For BOYFRIEND I have stanned them since their debut and I am very loyal to them! Please check them out! - KINGDOM was the group I didn't think I would stan since they're after Gen2. The boys have been such a sweet addition to my life, I am lucky enough to have spoken to them a few times and they're genuinely good people. I am glad they are here and I will be with them till the end!
Other groups
Billlie, ATEEZ, ONEWE, 2NE1, JAEJOONG, Z.TAO, SUPERM, TEEN TOP, PLT. My Chemical Romance, Simple Plan, Bon Jovi, Kamijo, Versailles, Harry Styles, CORPSE HUSBAND, Mcfly, Counterfeit,